{"id":970,"date":"2015-11-19T23:00:42","date_gmt":"2015-11-20T04:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/?p=970"},"modified":"2018-07-02T17:06:45","modified_gmt":"2018-07-02T21:06:45","slug":"thanksgiving-dinner-guests","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/thanksgiving-dinner-guests\/","title":{"rendered":"Thanksgiving Dinner Guests"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/5866849662_500858b334_z.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-972\" src=\"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/5866849662_500858b334_z-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"5866849662_500858b334_z\" width=\"300\" height=\"233\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/5866849662_500858b334_z-300x233.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/5866849662_500858b334_z.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Select your answer in each of the following.<\/p>\n<p>1. <em>We&#8217;re inviting the (Rubio&#8217;s\/Rubios&#8217;\/Rubios) and a few other candidates&#8217; families to Thanksgiving dinner.<\/em><br \/>\n2. <em>I need the (Clinton&#8217;s\/Clintons\/Clintons&#8217;) banana cream\u00a0pie recipe, but I don&#8217;t have\u00a0Hillary&#8217;s email address.<\/em><br \/>\n3. <em>We hope the (Bush&#8217;s\/Bushes\/Bushes&#8217;) know we don&#8217;t have room for their entire family.<\/em><br \/>\n4. <em>Ivanka said she&#8217;d keep an eye on the (children&#8217;s\/childrens\/childrens&#8217;) table.<\/em><br \/>\n5. <em>My in-laws are joining us so the working (class&#8217;s\/class&#8217;\/classes) voice is represented.<\/em><br \/>\n6. <em>The (Cruzes\/Cruz&#8217;s\/Cruzes&#8217;) are bringing a Tex-Mex appetizer.<\/em><br \/>\n7. <em>After dinner we&#8217;re using the Sanders&#8217;\/Sander&#8217;s\/Sanderses&#8217; minivan to take all the leftovers to a soup kitchen.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Political correctness<\/h2>\n<p>1. <em>We&#8217;re inviting the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Rubios<\/span> and a few other candidates&#8217; families to Thanksgiving dinner.<\/em> Resist the temptation to attach an apostrophe to a name when making it plural. Treat the name as you would a word.<br \/>\n2. <em>I need the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Clintons&#8217;<\/span>\u00a0banana cream pie recipe, but I don&#8217;t have Hillary&#8217;s email address.<\/em>\u00a0Names and words that are pluralized with an &#8220;s&#8221; need an apostrophe at the end to show possession.<br \/>\n3. <em>We hope the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Bushes<\/span> know we don&#8217;t have room for their entire family.<\/em> Some names (and words) need &#8220;es&#8221; for the plural form because we are adding a syllable. Again, resist the impulse to consider an apostrophe.<br \/>\n4. <em>Ivanka said she&#8217;d keep an eye on the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">children&#8217;s<\/span> table.<\/em> Some plural words, like &#8220;men,&#8221; &#8220;women,&#8221; &#8220;alumni,&#8221; &#8220;mice,&#8221; and &#8220;children&#8221; have no &#8220;s&#8221; or &#8220;es&#8221; at the end. In these cases, although the word is plural, we add an apostrophe and &#8220;s&#8221;\u00a0to show possession.<br \/>\n5. <em>My in-laws are joining us so the working <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">class&#8217;s <\/span><\/em>(or <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">class&#8217;<\/span>)<em> voice is represented. <\/em>When a singular word ends in &#8220;s&#8221; (or &#8220;ss&#8221;), style guides differ on using just an apostrophe or an apostrophe and an &#8220;s.&#8221; And some that do prefer an apostrophe and &#8220;s&#8221; after &#8220;ss&#8221; don&#8217;t play it that way if the following word starts with &#8220;s.&#8221; For example, <em>I didn&#8217;t tell you about my class&#8217; summer project. <\/em>Complicated!\u00a0But the good news is that you&#8217;re safe with\u00a0<em>class&#8217;<\/em> or <em>class&#8217;s<\/em>, so pick a style and stick with it. The key is consistency.<br \/>\n6. <em>The <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Cruzes<\/span> are bringing a Tex-Mex appetizer.<\/em> This is just like #3 (<em>Bushes<\/em>). We have to add a syllable to make the name plural, and then we&#8217;re done.<br \/>\n7. <em>After dinner we&#8217;re using\u00a0the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Sanderses&#8217;<\/span> minivan to take all the leftovers to a soup kitchen.<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em>Abiding by the rules, we need to make the name plural and then possessive, but you might feel that treatment seems awkward here. Keep reading.<\/p>\n<h2>Escape hatches<\/h2>\n<p>When being correct may be distracting, as in #5 (<em>class&#8217;s<\/em> or <em>class&#8217;<\/em>) or #7 (<em>Sanderses&#8217;<\/em>), it&#8217;s wise to create an escape hatch by rewording. In #5 we can treat the phrase &#8220;working class&#8221; as an adjective to avoid making it possessive: <em>My in-laws are joining us so the working class<\/em><em>\u00a0voice <\/em>(or<em> voice of the working class<\/em>)<em> is represented. <\/em>In #7 we might reword this way: <em>After dinner<\/em> w<em>e&#8217;re using the Sanders\u00a0family&#8217;s minivan to take all the leftovers to a soup kitchen.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Equal time<\/h2>\n<p>If any presidential candidates are miffed about not being mentioned in this post, their staffs can let me know. I&#8217;ll be glad to work them in next time.<\/p>\n<p><em style=\"color: #333333;\">In addition to presenting workshops on writing in the workplace, Norm is a writer, editor, and writing coach. His\u00a0<\/em><span style=\"color: #333333;\">100+ Instant Writing Tips<\/span><em style=\"color: #333333;\">\u00a0is a brief \u201cnon-textbook\u201d to help individuals overcome common writing errors and write with more finesse and impact. Learn more at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/index.shtml\">http:\/\/www.normfriedman.com\/index.shtml<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Select your answer in each of the following. 1. We&#8217;re inviting the (Rubio&#8217;s\/Rubios&#8217;\/Rubios) and a few other candidates&#8217; families to Thanksgiving dinner. 2. I need the (Clinton&#8217;s\/Clintons\/Clintons&#8217;) banana cream\u00a0pie recipe, but I don&#8217;t have\u00a0Hillary&#8217;s email address. 3. 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